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6 Common Reasons for Gray Divorce in Illinois

 Posted on March 25, 2024 in Divorce

IL divorce lawyerGray divorce has gone from quite rare to very normal. Older spouses grow apart just as younger spouses do, sometimes even more so after a very long marriage. Many people undergoing gray divorce also got married later in life and have found that starting a new marriage as an older adult is complicated. Gray divorce is increasingly accepted. Long marriages are not necessarily good marriages. Some couples who divorce at an older age have been unhappy for some time and only recently came to accept divorce as a realistic option for them. Often, older spouses are better able to cooperate during the process and may enjoy a more amicable divorce. If you are getting divorced after the age of 50, it is important to be represented by a qualified Wheaton, IL gray divorce attorney.

Why Older Adults Increasingly Choose Divorce 

A few of the numerous reasons that adults over 50 decide to end their marriages include:

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Preparing for High-Asset Divorce in Illinois

 Posted on March 20, 2024 in High Asset Divorce

IL divorce lawyerHigh-asset divorce may take longer than most other divorces in Illinois. The process of accounting for and equitably dividing your assets can take time and require the skill of an experienced DuPage County, IL high-asset divorce lawyer. You and your spouse likely have complex shared assets like investment accounts, stock holdings, or ownership interest in a corporation. These assets can be difficult to divide equitably due to their fluctuating or uncertain value. It is important to find skilled representation from an attorney who regularly takes on high-asset complex divorce cases. This is especially critical if you suspect that your divorce will need to be tried in court. 

Plan for Litigation 

High-asset divorces are more likely to be litigated because there is more at stake. Your divorce is even more likely to be litigated if you or your spouse will demand alimony or if you are deeply in conflict with one another. Your attorney will likely want to begin gathering the evidence you will need immediately. 

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How Does Adultery Affect Divorce in DuPage County?

 Posted on March 14, 2024 in Divorce

IL divorce lawyerOne spouse having an affair is a common cause of divorce nationwide. Finding out that your spouse has been seeing another person romantically or sexually can make you feel betrayed and heartbroken. Adultery is an insurmountable hurdle for many marriages, and courts will nearly always consider not wanting to reconcile with an unfaithful spouse grounds for divorce. Because Illinois is a no-fault divorce state, even if it is fairly clear who is at fault in causing the irreconcilable differences, your spouse’s adultery may not have the impact you would hope. However, there are some ways that your spouse’s infidelity might have an impact on your divorce, particularly when it comes to asset division and, in some cases, child custody. A Wheaton, IL, divorce lawyer can help you understand what effect your spouse’s affair might have on your proceedings.

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When to Get a Postnuptial in Illinois

 Posted on March 06, 2024 in Postnuptial Agreements

IL divorce lawyerIf you are already married, especially if you have been married for quite a while, bringing up the idea of getting a postnuptial agreement with your spouse might seem difficult. However, if you did not get a prenuptial agreement before the marriage, putting a contract in place now might be a good idea for several reasons. This type of contract can protect you should you later divorce, and some spouses will wisely demand one as a condition of remaining married after marital misconduct has occurred. Many marriage counselors also recommend putting a postnuptial agreement in writing in some circumstances, as it can give both spouses peace of mind. Sitting down together with your Wheaton, IL, postnuptial agreement lawyers and working out a contract can also be an excellent exercise in compromise and cooperation.

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From Separation to Divorce in Illinois

 Posted on March 04, 2024 in Divorce

IL divorce lawyerIf you are already legally separated from your spouse, you may - or may not - have a far easier time getting divorced than most people. You already have certain financial agreements in place. You have been co-parenting while living apart. This may mean that you can fairly easily make the terms of your separation permanent by writing them into a divorce agreement. However, in some cases, separated spouses do undergo high-conflict divorces. This is common when one spouse has assumed the separation was temporary and that you would ultimately reconcile. Filing for divorce can cause one spouse to finally realize that the relationship is truly over, and they may not take this news well. If you are planning to get divorced after being legally separated, it is important to consult a well-qualified DuPage County, IL divorce lawyer.

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Working With a Guardian Ad Litem in Illinois

 Posted on February 27, 2024 in Child Custody

IL divorce lawyerParents who are going through a child custody case or divorce involving children often get anxious when they find out a guardian ad litem has been assigned to their case. However, guardians ad litem are a very normal part of a contested custody battle. Since the court will need to make decisions about what is best for the child, it will need an impartial person to investigate things like the child’s needs and relationship with each parent. The court needs more than in-court testimony given by each parent, both of whom are interested parties. Children, especially young children, often cannot provide useful and honest testimony in court while under stress. It is important to follow your DuPage County, IL, child custody attorney’s advice when it comes to working with a guardian ad litem.

Tips for Successfully Working With a Guardian Ad Litem 

While having a guardian ad litem come to interview your child can be nerve-wracking, taking steps like coaching the child on what to say will only make things worse. Some tips for working with a guardian ad litem include:

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Financial Deception in Divorce

 Posted on February 23, 2024 in Division of Assets

IL divorce lawyerIt is not uncommon for people who are getting divorced to realize that their spouse has not been honest about their financial situation. Some spouses begin hiding assets. Others conceal debts after dissipating marital assets. When you get divorced, your marital assets and marital debts alike will need to be divided equitably under Illinois state law. What does this mean if you do not actually know what your spouse owns and owes? It means that your DuPage County, IL, divorce lawyer will likely need to conduct a thorough investigation, which may involve bringing in another professional. It is important to have an accurate understanding of your marital property before you can work towards resolving your divorce.

Hidden Debts and Dissipation of Marital Assets

Hidden debts and the dissipation of marital assets are two distinct but sometimes related concepts. Dissipation of marital assets occurs when one spouse spends money that should have belonged to the marriage frivolously on themself without the consent of the other spouse. If your spouse spends thousands of dollars traveling with their affair partner, they have likely dissipated marital assets.

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What to Do if Your Spouse Wants Full Custody

 Posted on February 20, 2024 in Child Custody

IL divorce lawyer“I am going for full custody of the kids, and you will never see them,” is a common, but usually empty, threat during a contentious divorce. It takes a lot of evidence that a parent poses a legitimate risk of harm to their children for the court to grant one parent exclusive custody. In all likelihood, you do not need to worry about never seeing your children again unless you have actually been convicted of child abuse or a similar crime. Illinois courts make child custody decisions based on what is in the best interests of the child. Courts have long recognized that it is nearly always in a child’s best interest to have an ongoing relationship with both parents under most circumstances. However, if your spouse is demanding exclusive custody, it is important to be represented by an experienced Wheaton, IL, divorce and child custody lawyer who can stand up for your rights as a parent.

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Understanding Separate and Marital Assets

 Posted on February 15, 2024 in Divorce

IL divorce lawyerWhen you get divorced, your separate assets are yours to keep. Your spouse has no claim to them and cannot take them from you during the division of marital assets. Likewise, any separate assets your spouse owns cannot be awarded to you. Understanding the difference between separate and marital assets can be difficult. The longer you have been married, the more likely it is that you have donated some of your separate assets to the marriage, converting them into marital assets. If you have only been married for a short amount of time, it is likely that you still own some separate assets. A Wheaton, IL, divorce attorney can help you go through the assets you own and determine which are marital assets and which are separate assets.

Types of Separate Assets Married People May Own

Illinois law sets out a few types of assets that are normally considered the separate, nonmarital property of one spouse. Your separate assets may include:

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Divorce After a Long Marriage

 Posted on February 12, 2024 in Divorce

IL divorce lawyerGetting divorced after many years of marriage can be more complicated than getting divorced after being married for only a short time. There are many reasons why people choose to end their long-term marriages. If you were only staying together in order to raise your children in a two-parent household, you may decide to part ways once your children are grown. Other spouses find that as the years go by, they grow into two very different people and develop irreconcilable differences. You may find that you are no longer on the same page regarding religion, politics, or what you want out of life. One of you may have become more adventurous, wanting to spend your retired years traveling the world, while the other is ready to join a retirement community and spend their days relaxing by the pool. Whatever your reasons for getting divorced after a long marriage, a DuPage County, IL, divorce attorney can help you sort through the unique issues that arise in this type of divorce.

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