Defamation and Divorce: Can You Sue Your Ex for Damages?

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DuPage County divorce attorney defamation lawsuitStress and extreme emotions frequently coincide during the process of divorce. Occasionally, statements made during the “heat-of-the-moment” are later regretted. In many cases, these statements are emotionally painful but do little damage otherwise, so long as they remain private. However, if these statements do become public, they can destroy reputations and businesses alike. If your ex made false statements about you during your divorce, can you sue them for defamation of character?

Defining Defamation

Before determining if your ex is financially responsible for the harmful things they said during your divorce, it is essential to understand what constitutes defamation of character. Defamation is writing or saying something untrue and derogatory about someone else, with these statements resulting in substantial loss or injury. In a defamation lawsuit, you must satisfactorily prove your ex is guilty of all six of the following actions:

  • They wrote or said something defamatory.
  • The statement was made to an uninvolved third party.
  • The comment was untrue.
  • They named you by name.
  • If the statement was made unintentionally, it was negligent at the very least.
  • Your reputation or business suffered as a direct result of the claims.

Defamation and Divorce

Although it is possible to sue your ex for defamation of character, the complexity of a divorce can make the matter more complicated. When the circumstances surrounding the accusations surface, a judge typically takes everything said during the case with a grain of salt. Judges understand that the breakup of a marriage is a difficult time during which emotions can run rampant, often resulting in regrettable and hurtful comments. However, these comments often do not rise to the level of defamation. Additionally, since judges and attorneys are closely involved in a divorce case, they do not qualify as an “uninvolved third party.”

However, you may have a strong defamation case if you can answer “yes” to the following questions:

  • Can you prove beyond a reasonable doubt that your ex knew that their defamatory statement was false, such as with a medical test or written documentation?
  • Did the defaming conversation occur outside of an attorney's office or courtroom?
  • Is the damage caused by defamation quantifiable? That is, can you determine a dollar amount for the harm done?

Avoid the Drama With the Help of a Skilled Family Law Attorney

Having a reputable Wheaton, IL divorce attorney on your side can help mitigate some of the emotional turmoil associated with divorce. You may be able to resolve your disputes through alternative methods that reduce overall tensions, typically resulting in a more amicable divorce while avoiding the need for litigation. At Andrew Cores Family Law Group, our attorneys will use our experience to advise you on an appropriate course of action to limit any adverse outcomes and aggressively defend your rights throughout the legal process. Call our office at 630-871-1002 to schedule your free initial consultation and find out more about how we can help.


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