What Are Some Unique Challenges of Gray Divorce in DuPage County?

 Posted on March 14, 2022 in Divorce Trends

Il divorce lawyerDivorce is a complex topic, and while every Illinois couple faces a unique set of challenges when getting divorced, those who get divorced after age 55 tend to share a common set of issues. Colloquially known as “gray divorce,” divorces that happen later in life may not deal with some of the more challenging issues related to children but often present more difficult problems related to finances. Even if divorcing spouses are exiting the relationship on good terms, decades of financial entanglement often make gray divorce a complex process that requires the help of attorneys and financial experts. If you are considering a gray divorce in Illinois, here are some challenges you may want to anticipate.

Permanent or Indefinite Spousal Maintenance

After a couple has been married for 20 years or more, a court may award permanent alimony payments, especially if one spouse gave up significant career or educational opportunities to raise children and run a household. Spousal maintenance payments must be supported by a life insurance policy that lists the recipient as a beneficiary in case the paying spouse passes away first.

Wills, Trusts, and Other Inheritance

Older couples have often already established financial instruments to pass funds, heirlooms, and real estate on to their children or other beneficiaries. They may also have inherited such items from their own parents. Distinguishing what is marital and non-marital after a long life together can prove very challenging. Professionals like accountants who can help determine how much of a property or bank account is marital property may be necessary to ensure a fair property division.

Retirement Account and Asset Division

Many gray divorcees are retired or will soon retire and their retirement instruments may make up the most significant part of their marital assets. Spouses can negotiate a property settlement in various ways. For example, one party may wish to buy the other out of the marital home using cash or retirement account funds. Conversely, one party may wish to buy out the other party’s ownership in a retirement account so they can keep the funds for themselves, or they may choose to split retirement accounts using a Qualified Domestic Relations Order. Both spouses must consult with their attorneys and financial professionals to set financial priorities and advocate for a property division that makes sense for their goals and risk tolerance, keeping in mind that an Illinois court will ultimately need to approve the property division to ensure its fairness.

Meet with an Experienced DuPage County Divorce Attorney

If you are getting divorced later in life, there are special considerations your lawyer should take into account. At Andrew Cores Family Law Group, our skilled Wheaton, IL divorce attorneys have helped many older divorcees successfully negotiate these challenges and achieve a satisfactory divorce decree. Make sure you get help from attorneys you can trust. Call us today at 630-871-1002 to schedule a free, confidential consultation.




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